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About Bas

I have always been an explorer. My journey has led me via plant medicine to exploring Reiki, body de-armouring, breathwork, deep consent work and tantric BDSM — and years of assisting in the field of consent-based conscious kink — to putting myself into the world as a coach and teacher.

Along the journey I have dived into non-duality, Taoism, and been working as a Human Design coach for a number of years now. I have stepped away from calling myself a seeker of truth, because that implies that there is something to be found. Instead I try to live truth, to the best of my capabilities — and sometimes I utterly fail.

I walk alongside people on their path, if they ask me — be it as a coach, sharing from my own experiences and reflecting on their situation. Mostly I see myself as the one who throws pebbles in the water and watches the ripples appear and move outward, all by themselves. I believe in the power of the Self, the capability of healing ourselves, with the right help and being open to life showing us the way — if we let it, and notice the signs along the way.

At the same time, I believe in the power of connection, and the importance of working together on healing ourselves, so that we all may grow.

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A NOTE ON KINK

Kink, and why that matters.

Kink is not strange, and it is not an exception. It is one of the many ways human sexuality expresses itself. There is no normal — there is only what is true for each person, and the room to meet it honestly.

What kink offers, when it is held well, is room for everything that wants to be felt. Edge, tenderness, surrender, power, longing, fear, joy. The parts of ourselves that find no home in daily life can come here and be met. That is where healing happens. That is where growth becomes possible.

And what most people miss: kink is safer than what they think it is, precisely because it is explicit. The conversations are had out loud. Consent is named, checked, renewed. Limits are spoken. In a culture where intimacy often happens in unspoken assumptions, kink — done consciously — gives people something rare: a place where they can be fully themselves, with nothing hidden.

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