A private session in a D/s dynamic is an opportunity to work on deeply rooted beliefs — a chance to, within your limits, surrender and open up a window to explore your desires, limits and boundaries.

We will construct a container of agreements, based on what it is that you wish to experience, so that you can undergo this experience completely and experience what it is to be completely held and kept safe.

We can work with any desire* and look at any obstacle that is keeping you from living your full potential — any limiting beliefs you might hold, or any trauma you underwent that is now blocking your flow of energy. We can work with numbness, slowly activating your nervous system again so that you can start to feel yourself again and, from thereon in, the world around you.

What to expect

Every session begins with a conversation — about what you bring, what you want to explore, and what the container will look like. We establish agreements together. The session itself is held within those agreements, and ends with aftercare and time to settle before you re-enter the world.

A note on desires*

Any desire you bring is welcome — and needs to fit the container that is offered. I do not offer sexual activities. Whatever happens in the session, no matter how exciting the scene we are playing out might be, no matter how turned on you get — which is completely welcome and will not be frowned upon — it will not be taken anywhere, neither during nor after the scene. You are free to want everything you want. You might not get all of it. That in itself can be a rich area to work with.

My basic rule set for working with clients: no intimate kissing, no exchange of bodily fluids, no stimulation of genitals for the sake of that stimulation, no peak orgasm, no genital-to-genital contact.